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i have a daughter and when she is bad i tell her dad o spank her because it is the mans responsibilty to punish the kids but do you think im right how many dads spank there kids
i spank more often then my husband. but i think its up to whoever is there to dole out the discipline as needed.
but this question sounds suspiciously like a reaction seeker to me.
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Both parents should agree on this, but in our case we spank our kids.
When both parents agree with this kind of discipline, both should be able to do it. It can’t be just the father who is tasked to do it, afterall, discipline is not a task, its a necessity.
When a mother tells her child, “I’ll tell daddy you’ve been bad and he will spank you when he gets home.” …doesnt the mom sound so lame?
an opportunity for discipline should never be allowed to pass by. If a child misbehaves, at that very instance the child must be disciplined.
(i will not discuss parental judgement on discipline, how kids should be spanked, how not and how to do it and the gravity of the punishment)
I just want to emphasize that both parents must be firm to discipline and quick to recognize an opportunity to enforce discipline.
When a parent spanks their child the other parent must not interfere. A mother must not “come to the rescue” of the child being spanked by the father. this would result into the “good parent-bad parent” synrome.
when this happens, automatically, the father becomes the villain and the mother becomes the hero. The same would result vice versa.
Discipline would only work if it is enforced thouroughly and firmly. NO ARGUING in front of the kids when punishment is being enforced! (argue later, do not interrupt the enforcement of discipline. arguments must be done behind closed doors and beyond childrens hearing)
When you start discipline, you must know how to end it. The parent who enforced descipline must take sometime to talk to the child afterwards. explain to the child why he/she was discipline. Only after this can the “other” parent approach the disciplined child.
always, end discipline with explanation and reassurance the child is loved and we only wish the best for them.